"Choosing your identity means much more than opting to be a cute, blonde cheerleader type rather than a plump, shy bookworm, although that's certainly basic to your identity. It also means that you've chosen the basic blueprint for your life, because who you are determines what experiences life will throw your way. It doesn't, however, mean that your entire life is preordained, and that you might as well just "go with the flow" so to speak, because nothing you can do will change what's already been determined. If that were true, it would negate the entire concept of free will and make your original choices pretty meaningless." - from "CHOOSING YOUR JOURNEY" by Suzane Northrop
You absolutely DO have the power to affect what happens to your life. It is your free will that creates your final destiny. I absolutely believe that YOU ARE YOUR THOUGHTS.....and so it is time to work on what you are thinking about yourself.
